Part 1 — Called to Build in the Ruins
- Victor Stanley Jr

- Jan 14
- 4 min read
This article is part of the series Faithful in the Fracture: Humility and Perseverance When Leadership Meets Resistance.

Called to Build in the Ruins
There is a particular kind of leadership that does not begin with vision boards, growth curves, or applause. It begins in rubble.
The opening chapters of The Book of Ezra confront us with this uncomfortable truth. The people of Israel are not returning to Jerusalem at the height of momentum or morale. They are returning to ruins—physical, spiritual, institutional. The temple is gone. The city is scarred. The social fabric is thin. Yet into this setting steps Ezra, not as a conqueror or a revolutionary, but as a steward. His calling is not to invent something new, but to faithfully rebuild what was entrusted to him.
This is where serious leadership often begins: not with expansion, but with restoration.
Ezra’s authority does not come from charisma or coercion. It comes from alignment. Scripture tells us that “the hand of the Lord his God was on him,” not because Ezra was flawless, but because he had “set his heart to study the Law of the Lord, and to do it, and to teach.” His leadership flowed from inner formation before external action. In other words, Ezra did not rush to fix systems before ordering his soul.
That ordering matters—especially when conflict has not yet appeared, but is already inevitable.
Why Rebuilding Attracts Resistance
Leadership naïvely assumes that good intentions will be met with good faith. Ezra’s story dismantles that illusion quickly. The decision to rebuild is righteous, necessary, and overdue—yet it immediately attracts opposition. Not because it is corrupt, but because it is consequential.
Rebuilding threatens existing power arrangements. It exposes unresolved fractures. It forces clarity where ambiguity once protected people from accountability. In pastoral language, rebuilding brings conviction. In executive terms, it introduces governance where informality once ruled. Either way, resistance is not an anomaly—it is a signal.
Here is where humility becomes essential. Not the performative humility that pretends leadership is easy, but the sober humility that accepts friction without internalizing it as failure. Ezra does not respond to early resistance with defensiveness or domination. He also does not retreat. He proceeds deliberately, grounded in purpose rather than reaction.
This posture matters deeply for leaders navigating conflict today—particularly when that conflict emerges from partnerships that once felt aligned. The temptation is always to escalate: to prove, to expose, to outmaneuver. Ezra models something far rarer: restraint rooted in confidence.
The Discipline of Right Beginnings
One of the quiet dangers in leadership is starting correctly but impatiently. Ezra resists this. Before walls rise, before policies harden, before authority is asserted, worship is restored. Sacrifice precedes strategy. The altar is rebuilt before the structure.
This is not sentimental religiosity—it is leadership logic. Ezra understands that if the foundation is not re-centered, everything built on top will fracture under pressure. Worship, in this sense, is not about ceremony; it is about orientation. It answers the question every leader must face early and often: What are we actually serving?
In executive life, this translates to first principles. Why does the organization exist? What does faithfulness look like when profit, reputation, or momentum are threatened? What lines will not be crossed—even if crossing them would end the conflict faster?
These questions must be settled before opposition arrives. Otherwise, pressure will answer them for you.
Humility Without Passivity
Ezra’s humility does not make him weak. It makes him durable. He does not confuse humility with appeasement, nor perseverance with aggression. He understands that leadership is not about eliminating disagreement, but about carrying responsibility without surrendering integrity.
This is where many leaders falter. Conflict triggers pride—not always loud pride, but defensive pride. The need to be seen as right. The urge to win the narrative. The subtle shift from steward to self-justifier. Ezra avoids this not by disengaging, but by remaining anchored.
There is a kind of peace that comes from clarity of calling. It does not promise comfort, but it does provide steadiness. Ezra knows why he is there. He knows what success is and what it is not. That knowledge frees him from the exhausting task of managing everyone else’s response.
Faithfulness Before Outcomes
The first chapter of Ezra does not end with resolution. It ends with obedience. The work begins. The altar stands. The people move forward—aware, now, that rebuilding will be costly.
That is the correct place to start.
Leadership shaped by humility and perseverance does not guarantee harmony. It guarantees faithfulness. And faithfulness, while rarely efficient, is always formative. It builds leaders who can endure conflict without becoming cynical, who can hold authority without hardening, and who can finish their work without rewriting their conscience.
The ruins are not a sign you are late. They are often a sign you have been called.
Clarity invites resistance. In Part 2, we examine how opposition often begins politely—and why discernment must precede agreement.
Rebuilding requires more than vision—it requires endurance and restraint.
Victor Stanley Jr.'s father, Dr. Victor Stanley, offers executive coaching for leaders tasked with restoring what is broken while navigating complexity, opposition, and long-term responsibility.




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